Saturday, October 31, 2009
Friday, October 30, 2009
Praise the Lord
Praise the Lord.
A lot of Great things have been happening this year... and it will continue... yeap!!!
A lot of Great things have been happening this year... and it will continue... yeap!!!
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Happy Malaysia Day
Happy Malaysia Day...
The 3 S joined Malaysia on 16 September 1963, but the small island broke away on 9 August 1965...
Sure no regrets...
The 3 S joined Malaysia on 16 September 1963, but the small island broke away on 9 August 1965...
Sure no regrets...
Thursday, September 10, 2009
Monday, August 31, 2009
Sunday, August 30, 2009
Books
Bought a lot of books recently.
Just hope that I will finish reading them all.
Coz I got a hopeless habit of buying books for kepts.
goosh...
Just hope that I will finish reading them all.
Coz I got a hopeless habit of buying books for kepts.
goosh...
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Saturday, August 22, 2009
Tuesday, August 18, 2009
Sick at home...
Sick at home...
Great...
At least I got the chance to slow down and look at my current situation...
Tired but happy...
Dear...
Great...
At least I got the chance to slow down and look at my current situation...
Tired but happy...
Dear...
Friday, August 14, 2009
Thursday, August 13, 2009
讓生活不一樣，你只需要「多想1秒鐘」！
讓生活不一樣，你只需要「多想1秒鐘」！
文．舊金山加州大學精神科副教授楊錦波
2009/07 康健雜誌 康健七月份網路專欄
觀察勿添加色彩，定論勿堅持立場
任何事件發生，我們經常反射性的添加自己的看法，認不清什麼是事實，什麼是看法。某日傍晚，陳先生駕車接八歲女兒返家，行經鄰居好友家門。當時天色已黑，女兒見到她家浴室亮著燈光，馬上手指窗戶下定論說：「爸爸，你看瑪麗正在淋浴！」陳先生反問女兒：「你怎麼知道她在洗澡？說不定她離開浴室，忘了熄電關燈；或者她離家外出，刻意亮燈防盜。」浴室亮燈是一個事實，瑪麗在淋浴是女兒對事件添加的看法。我們常常誤把看法當事實，造成對事實的曲解。
誤信曲解的事實，常會引發情緒困擾，影響生活功能。徐先生急需現款，把住宅交予仲介求售。經過多次協商，價格終於議定。買方原先要用公司名義購屋，不巧貸款手續遭遇困難，需要改用私人名義，要求重簽買賣合同。徐先生聞之色變，直覺的聯想到：「對方真是老奸巨猾，想要臨陣脫逃，趁機壓低買價！」他開始精神緊繃，茶不思飯不想。徐太太個性穩重，在通盤考量之後，冷靜勸告先生：「臨時變更名義，確有可能暗藏玄機，然而買方也可能真有苦衷。證據尚未充分之前，姑且勿下定論。讓我們耐心等待，靜觀事態發展。」
最後買方信守承諾，並未要求重新議價，於數日之後以原價付款。徐先生如釋重負，坦然向太太表白：「都是我多心，平白擔心了一場！」
我們往往把看法當成下結論的依據，進而堅持立場，據理力爭，造成人際關係緊張，破壞親友之間感情。
某對夫妻因家庭開支意見相左而起爭執，太太氣憤不過，強烈指責先生：「你這忘恩負義的傢伙！你佔盡了我的便宜！」先生連忙辯解：「絕對沒有這回事！」太太一口咬定：「怎麼會沒有？我婚前辛苦賺錢，幫你支付房貸頭款；我婚後放棄事業，為你洗衣燒飯，料理家庭照顧小孩，你從來不知感謝！」
先生退讓一步，客氣的說：「你對家庭的付出，我一向都很感激。」太太還是堅持己見，得理不饒人：「你只是口頭說說，沒有絲毫誠意！佔人便宜還死不承認！」
換個角度，多想１秒鐘
念頭看法本身並沒有實質，它們有如行雲流水，來去了無行蹤，我們不必去相信它，也不用受其擺佈。我們的言論只是個人對事件的看法，我們的觀點也不斷隨著時間地點而改變。念頭與觀點絕非事實真相，對個人信念觀點的執著，往往造成不必要的受苦。
想要培養客觀敏銳的觀察力，我們可以每日撥冗靜坐，把注意力放在呼吸，讓心情放鬆沉澱，觀察逐一浮現的念頭，不評估好壞，不加以渲染，不擅加己見，不駐足留念，讓每個念頭悄然逝去。
您下次要堅持己見的時候，是否可以後退一步，看看是否有別的看法？當您要責怪他人之時，是否可以換個角度看，設法了解別人立場？當您要下定結論時，是否可以檢討反省，檢視證據是否充足？
文．舊金山加州大學精神科副教授楊錦波
2009/07 康健雜誌 康健七月份網路專欄
觀察勿添加色彩，定論勿堅持立場
任何事件發生，我們經常反射性的添加自己的看法，認不清什麼是事實，什麼是看法。某日傍晚，陳先生駕車接八歲女兒返家，行經鄰居好友家門。當時天色已黑，女兒見到她家浴室亮著燈光，馬上手指窗戶下定論說：「爸爸，你看瑪麗正在淋浴！」陳先生反問女兒：「你怎麼知道她在洗澡？說不定她離開浴室，忘了熄電關燈；或者她離家外出，刻意亮燈防盜。」浴室亮燈是一個事實，瑪麗在淋浴是女兒對事件添加的看法。我們常常誤把看法當事實，造成對事實的曲解。
誤信曲解的事實，常會引發情緒困擾，影響生活功能。徐先生急需現款，把住宅交予仲介求售。經過多次協商，價格終於議定。買方原先要用公司名義購屋，不巧貸款手續遭遇困難，需要改用私人名義，要求重簽買賣合同。徐先生聞之色變，直覺的聯想到：「對方真是老奸巨猾，想要臨陣脫逃，趁機壓低買價！」他開始精神緊繃，茶不思飯不想。徐太太個性穩重，在通盤考量之後，冷靜勸告先生：「臨時變更名義，確有可能暗藏玄機，然而買方也可能真有苦衷。證據尚未充分之前，姑且勿下定論。讓我們耐心等待，靜觀事態發展。」
最後買方信守承諾，並未要求重新議價，於數日之後以原價付款。徐先生如釋重負，坦然向太太表白：「都是我多心，平白擔心了一場！」
我們往往把看法當成下結論的依據，進而堅持立場，據理力爭，造成人際關係緊張，破壞親友之間感情。
某對夫妻因家庭開支意見相左而起爭執，太太氣憤不過，強烈指責先生：「你這忘恩負義的傢伙！你佔盡了我的便宜！」先生連忙辯解：「絕對沒有這回事！」太太一口咬定：「怎麼會沒有？我婚前辛苦賺錢，幫你支付房貸頭款；我婚後放棄事業，為你洗衣燒飯，料理家庭照顧小孩，你從來不知感謝！」
先生退讓一步，客氣的說：「你對家庭的付出，我一向都很感激。」太太還是堅持己見，得理不饒人：「你只是口頭說說，沒有絲毫誠意！佔人便宜還死不承認！」
換個角度，多想１秒鐘
念頭看法本身並沒有實質，它們有如行雲流水，來去了無行蹤，我們不必去相信它，也不用受其擺佈。我們的言論只是個人對事件的看法，我們的觀點也不斷隨著時間地點而改變。念頭與觀點絕非事實真相，對個人信念觀點的執著，往往造成不必要的受苦。
想要培養客觀敏銳的觀察力，我們可以每日撥冗靜坐，把注意力放在呼吸，讓心情放鬆沉澱，觀察逐一浮現的念頭，不評估好壞，不加以渲染，不擅加己見，不駐足留念，讓每個念頭悄然逝去。
您下次要堅持己見的時候，是否可以後退一步，看看是否有別的看法？當您要責怪他人之時，是否可以換個角度看，設法了解別人立場？當您要下定結論時，是否可以檢討反省，檢視證據是否充足？
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
Sunday, August 9, 2009
Jogging
Went for a jogging session this evening.... huh.... great.... I need a new pair of tracking shoe....
Thursday, August 6, 2009
Friday, July 31, 2009
Home Alone
Mum and dad left and went back to KK yesterday ...
Home Alone again ...
Luckily God and you are by my side ...
Home Alone again ...
Luckily God and you are by my side ...
Saturday, July 18, 2009
You are the reason I am. You are all my reasons
You are my love, my inspiration... and you are all my reasons.
"What truly is logic? Who decides reason? I have made the most important discovery of my life: It is only in the mysterious equations of love that any logic or reasons can be found. You are the reason I am. You are all my reasons."
-John Nash in A Beautiful Mind
"What truly is logic? Who decides reason? I have made the most important discovery of my life: It is only in the mysterious equations of love that any logic or reasons can be found. You are the reason I am. You are all my reasons."
-John Nash in A Beautiful Mind
Sunday, July 12, 2009
I pray to thee today
This is my prayer to thee, my lord - strike, strike at the root of penury in my heart.
Give me the strength lightly to bear my joys and sorrows.
Give me the strength to make my love fruitful in service.
Give me the strength never to disown the poor or bend my knees before insolent might.
Give me the strength to raise my mind high above daily trifles.
- by Rabindranath Tagore
Give me the strength lightly to bear my joys and sorrows.
Give me the strength to make my love fruitful in service.
Give me the strength never to disown the poor or bend my knees before insolent might.
Give me the strength to raise my mind high above daily trifles.
- by Rabindranath Tagore
一直努力，爲了心愛的人
若干年前的夜晚﹐與學長在漫天星雨的山上如是談著夢想及願望。
年長數年的學長說﹕「我只希望以後能與我心愛的人在一起﹐住在自己的小房子﹐過著快樂平淡的日子。」
當年心高氣傲的我回說﹕「這種生活對我而言太過平凡了。我就一定要闖出一番事業﹐我要很多很多的名成利就。」 當時真猜不透﹐像學長這樣有才華又有條件的人怎麼這樣英雄氣短呢﹖﹖﹖
自從學長畢業後﹐再沒有遇到他了。只聽說他人在美國東岸﹐應該也有了太太及孩子﹐過著快樂的日子吧。
現在回想起當年的那番對話﹐才真正體會學長的想法。平凡何嘗不是另一種幸福與成就啊﹗
但是我還是會一直努力，爲了心愛的人。
年長數年的學長說﹕「我只希望以後能與我心愛的人在一起﹐住在自己的小房子﹐過著快樂平淡的日子。」
當年心高氣傲的我回說﹕「這種生活對我而言太過平凡了。我就一定要闖出一番事業﹐我要很多很多的名成利就。」 當時真猜不透﹐像學長這樣有才華又有條件的人怎麼這樣英雄氣短呢﹖﹖﹖
自從學長畢業後﹐再沒有遇到他了。只聽說他人在美國東岸﹐應該也有了太太及孩子﹐過著快樂的日子吧。
現在回想起當年的那番對話﹐才真正體會學長的想法。平凡何嘗不是另一種幸福與成就啊﹗
但是我還是會一直努力，爲了心愛的人。
老爸的英文情書（請不要笑得太大聲）
『老爸的英文情書』 ……………..真的很好笑 .... 摘自台灣日報
老爸一直以追到有校花之稱的老媽而自豪，
但每次講到擄獲老媽芳心的致命關鍵的一封英文情書，
老媽都笑的前俯後仰，經過我們一再催逼，
老媽終於拿出老爸當年寫給她的情書，看了真的是 OH ！ MY GOD ！
很有一套喔！
Dear wang litte sister:
From see you one eye, I shit love you.
Your eyes close, I die; your eyes open, I come back to live.
Your eyes close and open again and again,I die again and again.
Maybe you do not remember me, no matter.
When you carefully look at me, you will one see clock.
I think l should introduce myself to you.
I call Li big great. Toyear 25.
My home have four mouth people-papa, mama, I and DD.
I am a good man, in a big company work.
I do early fuck every day, so that I can have strong body to protect you.
Please come to eat and sleep with me, or I will cut my hair to be a monk,
and find a place where many monks live in to over my life.
Like Your people
哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈 ! 沒有高手翻譯你不會看得懂的喔 ! 全版如下 Dear wang litte sister: 親愛的王小姐 From see you one eye, I shit love you. 自從看到你的第一眼 , 我便愛上你。 Your eyes close, I die; your eyes open, I come back to live. Your eyes close and open again and again,I die again and again. 妳的眼睛閉上，我就死了，你的眼睛打開，我又活過來，妳的眼睛貶啊貶 , 我就死去活來 ? Maybe you do not remember me, no matter. When you carefully look at me, you will one see clock. 也許你不記得我 , 沒有關係 , 當你仔細看著我，你就會一見鍾情 I think l should introduce myself to you. 我想應該介紹一下自己。 I call Li big great. Toyear 25 我叫李大偉 , 今年 25 ( 今天是 today, 那麼今年就是 toyear. 至於偉就翻成 great 吧！ ) My home have four mouth people-papa, mama, I and DD. 我家有四口人 .. 爸爸、媽媽、我和弟弟。 I am a good man, in a big company work. 我是一個好男人，在一家大公司上班。 I do early fuck every day, so that I can have strong body to protect you.. 我每天都做早操，這樣我會有強壯的身體來保護你。 Please come to eat and sleep with me, or I will cut my hair to be a monk, and find a place where many monks live in to over my life; 請嫁給我吧 , 否則我將削髮為僧 , 找個廟來了此一生。 ( 實在想不起「嫁」字怎麼翻譯，好在頭腦靈光 , 嫁過來不就是和我吃住在一起。至於「廟」字 , 也不會翻譯，不過很多和尚住在一起的地方，就是廟。 ) Like Your people 喜歡妳的人
＊原來做早操的英文是 do early fuck ……
老爸一直以追到有校花之稱的老媽而自豪，
但每次講到擄獲老媽芳心的致命關鍵的一封英文情書，
老媽都笑的前俯後仰，經過我們一再催逼，
老媽終於拿出老爸當年寫給她的情書，看了真的是 OH ！ MY GOD ！
很有一套喔！
Dear wang litte sister:
From see you one eye, I shit love you.
Your eyes close, I die; your eyes open, I come back to live.
Your eyes close and open again and again,I die again and again.
Maybe you do not remember me, no matter.
When you carefully look at me, you will one see clock.
I think l should introduce myself to you.
I call Li big great. Toyear 25.
My home have four mouth people-papa, mama, I and DD.
I am a good man, in a big company work.
I do early fuck every day, so that I can have strong body to protect you.
Please come to eat and sleep with me, or I will cut my hair to be a monk,
and find a place where many monks live in to over my life.
Like Your people
哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈 ! 沒有高手翻譯你不會看得懂的喔 ! 全版如下 Dear wang litte sister: 親愛的王小姐 From see you one eye, I shit love you. 自從看到你的第一眼 , 我便愛上你。 Your eyes close, I die; your eyes open, I come back to live. Your eyes close and open again and again,I die again and again. 妳的眼睛閉上，我就死了，你的眼睛打開，我又活過來，妳的眼睛貶啊貶 , 我就死去活來 ? Maybe you do not remember me, no matter. When you carefully look at me, you will one see clock. 也許你不記得我 , 沒有關係 , 當你仔細看著我，你就會一見鍾情 I think l should introduce myself to you. 我想應該介紹一下自己。 I call Li big great. Toyear 25 我叫李大偉 , 今年 25 ( 今天是 today, 那麼今年就是 toyear. 至於偉就翻成 great 吧！ ) My home have four mouth people-papa, mama, I and DD. 我家有四口人 .. 爸爸、媽媽、我和弟弟。 I am a good man, in a big company work. 我是一個好男人，在一家大公司上班。 I do early fuck every day, so that I can have strong body to protect you.. 我每天都做早操，這樣我會有強壯的身體來保護你。 Please come to eat and sleep with me, or I will cut my hair to be a monk, and find a place where many monks live in to over my life; 請嫁給我吧 , 否則我將削髮為僧 , 找個廟來了此一生。 ( 實在想不起「嫁」字怎麼翻譯，好在頭腦靈光 , 嫁過來不就是和我吃住在一起。至於「廟」字 , 也不會翻譯，不過很多和尚住在一起的地方，就是廟。 ) Like Your people 喜歡妳的人
＊原來做早操的英文是 do early fuck ……
Without GOD
Without GOD, our week would be:
Sinday, Mournday, Tearsday, Wasteday, Thirstday, Fightday & Shatterday.
Remember seven days WITHOUT GOD makes one WEAK!!
Sinday, Mournday, Tearsday, Wasteday, Thirstday, Fightday & Shatterday.
Remember seven days WITHOUT GOD makes one WEAK!!
Friday, July 10, 2009
Thursday, July 9, 2009
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只有十句话，我却看了十分钟
第一句
如果我们之间有1000步的距离
你只要跨出第1步
我就会朝你的方向走其余的999步
第二句
通常愿意留下来跟你争吵的人
才是真正爱你的人
第三句
付出真心 才会得到真心
却也可能伤得彻底
保持距离 就能保护自己
却也注定永远寂寞
第四句
有时候 不是对方不在乎你
而是你把对方看得太重
第五句
朋友就是把你看透了
还能喜欢你的人
第六句
就算是believe
中间也藏了一个lie
第七句
真正的好朋友 并不是在一起就有聊不完的话题
而是在一起 就算不说话 也不会感到尴尬
第八句
没有一百分的另一半
只有五十分的两个人
第九句
为你的难过而快乐的 是敌人
为你的快乐而快乐的 是朋友
为你的难过而难过的 就是那些 该放进心里的人
第十句
冷漠 有时候并不是无情
只是一种避免被伤害的工具
如果我们之间有1000步的距离
你只要跨出第1步
我就会朝你的方向走其余的999步
第二句
通常愿意留下来跟你争吵的人
才是真正爱你的人
第三句
付出真心 才会得到真心
却也可能伤得彻底
保持距离 就能保护自己
却也注定永远寂寞
第四句
有时候 不是对方不在乎你
而是你把对方看得太重
第五句
朋友就是把你看透了
还能喜欢你的人
第六句
就算是believe
中间也藏了一个lie
第七句
真正的好朋友 并不是在一起就有聊不完的话题
而是在一起 就算不说话 也不会感到尴尬
第八句
没有一百分的另一半
只有五十分的两个人
第九句
为你的难过而快乐的 是敌人
为你的快乐而快乐的 是朋友
为你的难过而难过的 就是那些 该放进心里的人
第十句
冷漠 有时候并不是无情
只是一种避免被伤害的工具
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
LY
I am very sorry that I made you so pissed off.
Forgive me and I will continue my journey to be a better man.
LY
Forgive me and I will continue my journey to be a better man.
LY
Thursday, June 25, 2009
Luke 11:9
Ask, and it will be given to you;
search, and you will find;
knock, and the door will be opened to you.
~ Luke 11:9 ~
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
My Birthday
Happiest birthday in my entire life ...
... because I come to know there are loved ones that care for me so much ...
Love you all!!!
... because I come to know there are loved ones that care for me so much ...
Love you all!!!
Sunday, June 21, 2009
愛的鼓勵
馬戲班的小可第一次練習走鋼線的時候，猶疑與掙扎了很久。當他終於鼓起了畢生的勇氣走出了第一步時，他忍不住往下看了看；好高。。。他害怕了，一不小心就手忙腳亂掉了下去。。。當然。。。安全網救了他。
當他決定作第二次的嘗試之前，他不斷提醒自己不要再往下看了，以免會產生恐懼而掉了下去。他走了幾步後，開始想到自己真正演出的情形會不會很糟糕。。。因為分心的關係，他失去平衡掉了下去。。。當然。。。是那可靠的安全網像老朋友般地在等他。
第三次了。他知道自己必須專心控制重心，才能完成走到對面去的任務。他全神貫注的一步接一步的走著，但是他覺得對面的平臺好像一直都很遙遠，怎麼也走不到過去，於是他決定往回走。當他好不容易回到了原點，師兄們告訴他說其實他剛才已經快完成一半的路途了，回來與過去對面的距離其實只差幾步而已；只要堅持下去，可能已經走到對面了。。。
小可還是要做這第四次的練習，因為離演出的日期越來越近了，假如他還是不能掌握好，可能這幾個月都沒有機會真正在觀眾面前表演了。他決定了要一心一意的走到終點。5分鐘過後，他發現自己已經站在這邊的平臺，對面是喝彩的師兄們。臺下也傳來了老師傅與班主的掌聲。。。
Life rewards those who walk their way, not looking back but looking forward. Don’t worry too much but keep our faith, and you will see fortune waiting at your destination.
所以我們應該往前看，往好處想，全心全意全力的把握我們的人生。幸福自然就會在前方等待我們。
這是一份愛的鼓勵，送給最親愛的妳。
當他決定作第二次的嘗試之前，他不斷提醒自己不要再往下看了，以免會產生恐懼而掉了下去。他走了幾步後，開始想到自己真正演出的情形會不會很糟糕。。。因為分心的關係，他失去平衡掉了下去。。。當然。。。是那可靠的安全網像老朋友般地在等他。
第三次了。他知道自己必須專心控制重心，才能完成走到對面去的任務。他全神貫注的一步接一步的走著，但是他覺得對面的平臺好像一直都很遙遠，怎麼也走不到過去，於是他決定往回走。當他好不容易回到了原點，師兄們告訴他說其實他剛才已經快完成一半的路途了，回來與過去對面的距離其實只差幾步而已；只要堅持下去，可能已經走到對面了。。。
小可還是要做這第四次的練習，因為離演出的日期越來越近了，假如他還是不能掌握好，可能這幾個月都沒有機會真正在觀眾面前表演了。他決定了要一心一意的走到終點。5分鐘過後，他發現自己已經站在這邊的平臺，對面是喝彩的師兄們。臺下也傳來了老師傅與班主的掌聲。。。
Life rewards those who walk their way, not looking back but looking forward. Don’t worry too much but keep our faith, and you will see fortune waiting at your destination.
所以我們應該往前看，往好處想，全心全意全力的把握我們的人生。幸福自然就會在前方等待我們。
這是一份愛的鼓勵，送給最親愛的妳。
Thursday, June 18, 2009
Monday, June 15, 2009
Sunday, June 14, 2009
11個笑話讓你領悟人生
11個笑話讓你領悟人生
1、父子二人看到一輛十分豪華的進口轎車。兒子不屑地對他的父親說：“坐這種車的人，肚子裡一定沒有學問！”父親則輕描淡寫地回答：“說這種話的人，口袋裡一定沒有錢！”
——你對事情的看法，是不是也出你內心真正的態度？
2、晚飯後，母親和女兒一塊兒洗碗盤，父親和兒子在客廳看電視。突然，廚房裡傳來打破盤子的響聲，然後一片沉寂。兒子望著他父親，說道：“一定是媽媽打破的。”“你怎麼知道？”“她沒有罵人。”
——我們習慣以不同的標准來看人看己，以致往往是責人以嚴，待己以寬。
3、有兩個台灣觀光團到伊豆半島旅游，路況很壞，到處都是坑洞。一位導游連聲說路面簡直像麻子一樣。而另一個導游卻詩意盎然地對游客說：“我們現在走的正是赫赫有名的伊豆迷人酒窩大道。
——雖是同樣的情況，然而不同的意念，就會產生不同的態度。思想是何等奇妙的事，如何去想，決定權在你。
4、同樣是小學三年級的學生，他們將來的志願同是當小醜。中國老師斥之為：胸中無大志，孺子不可教也！”外國老師則會說：“願你把歡笑帶給全世界！
——身為長輩的我們，不但要求多於鼓勵，更以狹窄界定了成功的定義。
5、妻子正在廚房炒菜。丈夫在她旁邊一直嘮叨不停：“慢些、小心！火太大了。趕快把魚翻過來、油放太多了！”妻子脫口而出：“我懂得怎樣炒菜。”丈夫平靜地答道：“我只是要讓你知道，我在開車時，你在旁邊喋喋不休，我的感覺如何……”
——學會體諒他人並不困難，只要你願意認真地站在對方的角度和立場看問題。
6、一輛載滿乘客的公共汽車沿著下坡路快速前進著，有一個人在後面緊緊追趕著這輛車子。一個乘客從車窗中伸出頭來對追車子的人說：“老兄！算啦，你追不上的！”“我必須追上它，”這人氣喘吁吁地說：“我是這輛車的司機！”
——有些人必須非常認真努力，因為不這樣的話，後果就十分悲慘了！然而也正因為必須全力以赴，潛在的本能和不為人知的特質終將充分展現出來。
7、甲：“新搬來的鄰居好可惡，昨天晚上三更半夜跑來猛按我家的門鈴。”乙：“的確可惡！你有沒有馬上報警？”甲：“沒有。我當他們是瘋子，繼續吹我的小喇叭。
——事出必有因，如果能先看到自己的不是，答案就會不一樣。
8、張三在山間小路開車，正當他悠哉地欣賞美麗風景時，突然迎面開來的貨車司機搖下窗戶大喊一聲：“豬！”張三越想越氣，也搖下車窗大罵：“你才是豬！”剛罵完，他便迎頭撞上一群過馬路的豬。
——不要錯誤地詮釋別人的好意，那只會讓自己吃虧，並且使別人受辱。
9、小男孩問爸爸：“是不是做父親的總比做兒子的知道得多？”爸爸回答：“當然啦！”“電燈是誰發明的？”“愛迪生。”“那愛迪生的爸爸怎麼沒有發明電燈？
——權威往往只是一個經不起考驗的空殼子，尤其在現今這個多元開放的時代。
10、小明洗澡時不小心吞下一小塊肥皂，他的媽媽慌慌張張地打電話給家庭醫生求助。醫生說：“我現在還有幾個病人在，可能要半小時後才能趕過去。”小明媽媽說：“在你來之前，我該做什麼？”醫生說：“給小明喝一杯白開水，然後用力跳一跳，你就可以讓小明用嘴巴吹泡泡消磨時間了。
——事情既然已經發生了，何不坦然自在地面對。擔心不如寬心，窮緊張不如窮開心。
11、一把堅實的大鎖掛在大門上，一根鐵杆費了九牛二虎之力，還是無法將它撬開。鑰匙來了，他瘦小的身子鑽進鎖孔，只輕輕一轉，大鎖就“啪”地一聲打開了。
——每個人的心，都像上了鎖的大門，任你再粗的鐵棒也撬不開。惟有關懷，才能把自己變成一把細膩的鑰匙，進入別人的心中。
1、父子二人看到一輛十分豪華的進口轎車。兒子不屑地對他的父親說：“坐這種車的人，肚子裡一定沒有學問！”父親則輕描淡寫地回答：“說這種話的人，口袋裡一定沒有錢！”
——你對事情的看法，是不是也出你內心真正的態度？
2、晚飯後，母親和女兒一塊兒洗碗盤，父親和兒子在客廳看電視。突然，廚房裡傳來打破盤子的響聲，然後一片沉寂。兒子望著他父親，說道：“一定是媽媽打破的。”“你怎麼知道？”“她沒有罵人。”
——我們習慣以不同的標准來看人看己，以致往往是責人以嚴，待己以寬。
3、有兩個台灣觀光團到伊豆半島旅游，路況很壞，到處都是坑洞。一位導游連聲說路面簡直像麻子一樣。而另一個導游卻詩意盎然地對游客說：“我們現在走的正是赫赫有名的伊豆迷人酒窩大道。
——雖是同樣的情況，然而不同的意念，就會產生不同的態度。思想是何等奇妙的事，如何去想，決定權在你。
4、同樣是小學三年級的學生，他們將來的志願同是當小醜。中國老師斥之為：胸中無大志，孺子不可教也！”外國老師則會說：“願你把歡笑帶給全世界！
——身為長輩的我們，不但要求多於鼓勵，更以狹窄界定了成功的定義。
5、妻子正在廚房炒菜。丈夫在她旁邊一直嘮叨不停：“慢些、小心！火太大了。趕快把魚翻過來、油放太多了！”妻子脫口而出：“我懂得怎樣炒菜。”丈夫平靜地答道：“我只是要讓你知道，我在開車時，你在旁邊喋喋不休，我的感覺如何……”
——學會體諒他人並不困難，只要你願意認真地站在對方的角度和立場看問題。
6、一輛載滿乘客的公共汽車沿著下坡路快速前進著，有一個人在後面緊緊追趕著這輛車子。一個乘客從車窗中伸出頭來對追車子的人說：“老兄！算啦，你追不上的！”“我必須追上它，”這人氣喘吁吁地說：“我是這輛車的司機！”
——有些人必須非常認真努力，因為不這樣的話，後果就十分悲慘了！然而也正因為必須全力以赴，潛在的本能和不為人知的特質終將充分展現出來。
7、甲：“新搬來的鄰居好可惡，昨天晚上三更半夜跑來猛按我家的門鈴。”乙：“的確可惡！你有沒有馬上報警？”甲：“沒有。我當他們是瘋子，繼續吹我的小喇叭。
——事出必有因，如果能先看到自己的不是，答案就會不一樣。
8、張三在山間小路開車，正當他悠哉地欣賞美麗風景時，突然迎面開來的貨車司機搖下窗戶大喊一聲：“豬！”張三越想越氣，也搖下車窗大罵：“你才是豬！”剛罵完，他便迎頭撞上一群過馬路的豬。
——不要錯誤地詮釋別人的好意，那只會讓自己吃虧，並且使別人受辱。
9、小男孩問爸爸：“是不是做父親的總比做兒子的知道得多？”爸爸回答：“當然啦！”“電燈是誰發明的？”“愛迪生。”“那愛迪生的爸爸怎麼沒有發明電燈？
——權威往往只是一個經不起考驗的空殼子，尤其在現今這個多元開放的時代。
10、小明洗澡時不小心吞下一小塊肥皂，他的媽媽慌慌張張地打電話給家庭醫生求助。醫生說：“我現在還有幾個病人在，可能要半小時後才能趕過去。”小明媽媽說：“在你來之前，我該做什麼？”醫生說：“給小明喝一杯白開水，然後用力跳一跳，你就可以讓小明用嘴巴吹泡泡消磨時間了。
——事情既然已經發生了，何不坦然自在地面對。擔心不如寬心，窮緊張不如窮開心。
11、一把堅實的大鎖掛在大門上，一根鐵杆費了九牛二虎之力，還是無法將它撬開。鑰匙來了，他瘦小的身子鑽進鎖孔，只輕輕一轉，大鎖就“啪”地一聲打開了。
——每個人的心，都像上了鎖的大門，任你再粗的鐵棒也撬不開。惟有關懷，才能把自己變成一把細膩的鑰匙，進入別人的心中。
Saturday, June 13, 2009
Warren E. Buffett
Be fearful when others are greedy, be greedy when others are fearful.
If you wait for the robins, spring will be over.
If you wait for the robins, spring will be over.
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
Sunday, June 7, 2009
幸運守則
幸運守則第1條
運氣不會持續太久， 因爲它並不屬於你。 幸運由個人所創造， 因此能歷久而不衰。
幸運守則第2條
幸運守則第2條
眾人皆期盼能擁有幸運， 但下定決心努力追求的人 卻寥寥可數。
幸運守則第3條
如果你時運不濟， 或許是因爲環境一成不變的緣故。 若想要幸運臨門， 最有效的辦法便是創造新環境。
幸運守則第4條
準備適合幸運降臨的環境， 不能只顧一己的私利。 創造環境，與他人共享共贏 才能帶來幸運。
幸運守則第5條
若將「準備工作」留到明天， 則幸運永遠不會到來。 創造環境所跨出的第一步 ── 就在今天！
幸運守則第6條
有時看似天時地利， 但幸運卻遲遲不來。 唯有從小細節著手， 看似無關緊要之處， 才是真正關鍵因素！
幸運守則第7條
幸運守則第7條
對於只相信運氣的人而言， 創造環境簡直是無稽之談。 對於致力創造環境者來説， 運氣好壞，他們毫不在乎。
幸運守則第8條
幸運守則第8條
沒有人能夠販售運氣。 因爲幸運乃非賣品。 切勿輕信那些買賣運氣的人。
幸運守則第9條
幸運守則第9條
當所有的條件與環境皆已俱備， 耐性等待，絕不輕言放棄。 靜待幸運來敲門， 並且務必堅守這個信念。
幸運守則第10條
幸運守則第10條
創造幸運即是 將適當的環境準備妥善。 機會並非運氣好壞的關鍵， 因爲機會始終存在。
--- 摘自“當幸運來敲門 Good Luck”
Sunday, May 31, 2009
Thursday, May 28, 2009
How Do I Love Thee?
How Do I Love Thee? - Elizabeth Barrett Browning
How do I love thee?
Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height my soul can reach, when feeling out of sight.
For the ends of being and ideal grace.
I love thee to the level of everyday's most quiet need, by sun and candlelight.
I love thee freely, as men strive for right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from praise.
I love thee with the passion put to use in my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose with my lost saints,
I love thee with the breath, smiles, tears, of all my life!
and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.
How do I love thee?
Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height my soul can reach, when feeling out of sight.
For the ends of being and ideal grace.
I love thee to the level of everyday's most quiet need, by sun and candlelight.
I love thee freely, as men strive for right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from praise.
I love thee with the passion put to use in my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose with my lost saints,
I love thee with the breath, smiles, tears, of all my life!
and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
Prayer
My MD taught me a new prayer today. It goes like this:-
"Dear Lord, please grant me no more waiting, let your prophecy of my life be fulfilled abundantly. Not on my own merit, but on the righteousness of your son, Jesus Christ. I also pray that blessing and holy spirit to flow from heaven, show me the areas in my life which I should pay attention to. Amen"
Such a beautiful and powerful prayer indeed.
Sunday, May 24, 2009
Bear Bear Coin Bank
I got a new Bear Bear Coin Bank from M...
It's written "Happy bear! What makes you so happy?" Maybe it's the good weather...
"Who makes you so happy?" Definitelty the one and only M
It's written "Happy bear! What makes you so happy?" Maybe it's the good weather...
"Who makes you so happy?" Definitelty the one and only M
A Little Prayer to God
I had said a little prayer to God...
"Lord God, I thank you for getting to know her. She is such considerate and understanding person, whom I will cherish most in my life. Amen"
"Lord God, I thank you for getting to know her. She is such considerate and understanding person, whom I will cherish most in my life. Amen"
Thursday, May 21, 2009
You
Looking at you gives me a sweet feeling.
I can smell your scent eventhough you told me you are not wearing any perfume.
Kssing you makes me feel that I am alive again.
Eternally in love with you=)
Sunday, May 17, 2009
Away From The One I Love
Dear,
Sorry for being away as I need to have this business trip.
I really miss you and will be thinking of you always, no matter where am I.
Love you and see you very soon.
5201314
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
Everything falls into place, thank God for everything.
Everything falls into place, thank God for everything.
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
FYP Day
Did not expect this day will come so fast=)
Well, I am well prepared to face the consequences anyway=)
So do not be afraid as I am ready for you=)
Just trust me and I will handle everything calmly and properly=)
I need only your support and do not give up no matter what it will become=)
Love will overcome every challenges=)
Well, I am well prepared to face the consequences anyway=)
So do not be afraid as I am ready for you=)
Just trust me and I will handle everything calmly and properly=)
I need only your support and do not give up no matter what it will become=)
Love will overcome every challenges=)
Sunday, May 10, 2009
Untitled
It's been 3 weeks... I have not been updating my blog... lolz
Many things happened during this period of time... things kinda getting well... though it started bad indeed...
Found... Lost but found again... Second chance is granted... Amazing Grace...
M, love you always... Thanks for all the kisses and hugs... You are much more than my lover... my dear friend...
And to mum at home... I haven't forgotten you... You are the greatest...
So to both M with Love... Happy Mother's day =)
Friday, April 24, 2009
Thanks
Thanks Danny, Vikki, Mark, Emilia, John, Peter and Chung for drinking with me...
Thanks John for f**king me of my foolishness and selfishness...
Thanks Chung for pulling me away from the pub, otherwise i might pick a fight very soon...
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Sorry I Love You
HM，对不起，如果我不使坏的话，就真的连你的手也没牵过。。。我当时在吃醋啦。。。
想起N的说话，“Your girlfriend ah？”我竟然答他：“Not yet”。。。
Sorry I Love You。。。
我刚才出去与朋友喝酒啦，因为有人生日。出去之前，我在学习摺餐巾。。。
Sunday, April 19, 2009
Saturday, April 18, 2009
Mortuary
I am exhausted but the fever won't let me sleep.
Found myself sleeping in a cold and unfamiliar place give me the creepy feeling that I am like a corpse laying in a mortuary.
I then realised I miss you so much that I rather stay near to you, even if nothing will happen.
Found myself sleeping in a cold and unfamiliar place give me the creepy feeling that I am like a corpse laying in a mortuary.
I then realised I miss you so much that I rather stay near to you, even if nothing will happen.
Faith, Hope and Love
Faith, Hope and Love; Love is the greatest among these.
Faith, is the belief that I use as my direction.
Without Faith, I will go astray from my original goal.
Hope is the future that I see as my destination.
Without Hope, I will lose my vision and see nothing.
Love, being the greatest of these,
is the power that get me going even when all my Faith and Hope are gone.
Without Love, I will be powerless and nothing else ever matter anymore.
Lord God, I pray that you will keep my Faith, Hope and Love, so that I can still feel that I am alive at this place and at this moment.
Faith, is the belief that I use as my direction.
Without Faith, I will go astray from my original goal.
Hope is the future that I see as my destination.
Without Hope, I will lose my vision and see nothing.
Love, being the greatest of these,
is the power that get me going even when all my Faith and Hope are gone.
Without Love, I will be powerless and nothing else ever matter anymore.
Lord God, I pray that you will keep my Faith, Hope and Love, so that I can still feel that I am alive at this place and at this moment.
Friday, April 17, 2009
My Sleepless Night
Packed my things and on my way to nowhere...
After driving pointlessly and wondering where to go, I ended up in Ipoh.
Checked in my usual place at 3am and tried to get some sleep.
But, hei... it's another sleepless night... just that this time is in Ipoh... Nothing changed even though I am in another city.
Guys, please don't blame me for not coming for the gathering this weekend. I will try to make it back next time... and please don't ask me why... k?
After driving pointlessly and wondering where to go, I ended up in Ipoh.
Checked in my usual place at 3am and tried to get some sleep.
But, hei... it's another sleepless night... just that this time is in Ipoh... Nothing changed even though I am in another city.
Guys, please don't blame me for not coming for the gathering this weekend. I will try to make it back next time... and please don't ask me why... k?
世界末日
世界末日
想笑 来伪装掉下的眼泪
点点头 承认自己会怕黑
我只求 能借一点的时间来陪
你却连同情都不给
想哭 来试探自己麻痹了没
全世界 好象只有我疲惫
无所谓 反正难过就敷衍走一回
但愿绝望和无奈远走高飞
天灰灰 会不会 让我忘了你是谁
夜越黑 梦违背 难追难回味
我的世界将被摧毁 也许事与愿违
累不累 睡不睡 单影无人相依偎
夜越黑 梦违背 有谁肯安慰
我的世界将被摧毁 或许颓废也是另一种美
PS 我又开始听这首歌了，一样的夜晚，一样的心情。我又要开始放假了。。。
想笑 来伪装掉下的眼泪
点点头 承认自己会怕黑
我只求 能借一点的时间来陪
你却连同情都不给
想哭 来试探自己麻痹了没
全世界 好象只有我疲惫
无所谓 反正难过就敷衍走一回
但愿绝望和无奈远走高飞
天灰灰 会不会 让我忘了你是谁
夜越黑 梦违背 难追难回味
我的世界将被摧毁 也许事与愿违
累不累 睡不睡 单影无人相依偎
夜越黑 梦违背 有谁肯安慰
我的世界将被摧毁 或许颓废也是另一种美
PS 我又开始听这首歌了，一样的夜晚，一样的心情。我又要开始放假了。。。
Thursday, April 16, 2009
Saturday, April 11, 2009
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
I will listen
U sounded so unhappy...
How I wish I can do something for u...
Forget about the past...
Just tell me what can I do for u that will make u happy again...
Be happy, Loving u...
It's a Ruby, Mama and Papa
It's a Ruby, Mama and Papa.
Yes, it's your 40th Wedding Anniversary.
Congratulation! and Congratulation again. Jeremiah and I are proud to be your children.
You two are the best. Although sometimes we saw your qurrelled but God and Love always bind you together.
Love you. Mr and Mrs. Richard Loo.
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
In the remembrance of Uncle Lawrance
Jeremiah sms me this evening saying they are with Uncle Lawrance for the last few hours of his life... He left us around 8:30pm today...
I was not close to him but he is indeed a very important person in my family life. Always get to see him only around CNY... well, that's the only times i was back at home...
Rest in peace and you are returning to God's place. God bless you and your family.
P.S. Thanks to HM for listening to my BS just now... talking to you really cheer me up
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
I don't know what I wanted in the end...
I don't know what I wanted in the end...
理性抑或是感性？
应该寻找我需要的还是渴望的？
It is a need or want?
Sound like a Marketing questison, isn't it?
God, please show me the way. Grant me not what I wanted, but what you wanted for me. Amen
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Monday, March 23, 2009
Saturday, March 14, 2009
Don't leave without even saying goodbye...
Don't leave without even saying goodbye...
I really hate it coz someone did it to me and it's still hurt till today.
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